Anger Management

Anger arises when we have a different point of viewperfection; that is why you are angry at imperfections.
as compared with the other people who are dealing inKeep a space of imperfections in your life. If you leave
our life, and it is the only thing from which everyonesome holes of imperfection, then you will see that your
wants to get rid and want to get there life free from it.ability to hold anger becomes much greater. The
Every sincere seeker wants to get rid of anger andcause of anger is the lack of total knowledge of what
reach a state of perfection, but is often swept by hisis happening inside that person. Even when someone
or her emotions. What can you do when anger rises incommits a mistake, know that he or she is not the
you? You may remind yourself a hundred times thatculprit; the stress inside is causing him or her to make
you shouldn't get angry, but when it comes, you arethat mistake. Showing anger itself is not wrong, but
unable to control it. Emotions are much more powerfulbeing unaware of your anger hurts you. There is a
than your thoughts and the promises you make. Angerplace for showing anger, but when you get angry
is a distortion of our true nature. We call it a distortionwithout awareness, what happens to you? You are
because it doesn't allow the self to shine forth fully.shaken completely.
And this is what sin is. Anger is a sin because whenLook at the consequences of getting angry. Spiritual
you are angry, you lose your centeredness; your focuspractices help you maintain your centeredness and not
is not on the infinite. You are limiting yourself to thebe shaken by small events. This is where a little
small mind to an action which has happened.knowledge about us, about our mind, our
Sin is just the wrinkle in the cloth. It needs properconsciousness, and the root of distortion in our nature
ironing. Anger is a sign of weakness. It takes a while towill help. Our breath has a great lesson to teach us,
raise the temper of a bodybuilder while a weak personwhich we have forgotten. Breathing techniques and
can get angry very fast. Often anger comes becausemeditation are very effective in calming the mind.
you don't accept the present moment and get stuck inUsually, you give your anger freely and your smile
the past. Have you ever observed that all your angerrarely as though a smile is expensive. In ignorance,
is about something which has already happened? Is itanger is cheap and a smile is costly. In knowledge, a
of any use getting angry about something which hassmile is free - like the sun shine and air - and anger is
passed and you cannot alter? No, it is meaningless.extremely expensive, like a diamond. Make your smile
Anger comes when one seeks too much ofcheaper and anger expensive.