Does the Bible Advocate "Tough Love?" How Tough?

Does the Bible say to give capital punishment to athe law for his whole life. He is likely to be a criminal
rebellious teenager?and hurt people. He may end up in prison for life. He
What if he joins a gang? What if he commits multiplemay end up being a mass murderer. When a teenager
crimes?starts going down the path of crime - it's hard to get
Here's what the Bible says:him out of it later on. The community must do
If a man has a teenage son who is defiant andeverything it can to make sure that he gets off the
rebellious, he refuses to listen to his father and mother.path of crime.
The parents try to discipline him - he still does not listen.The Bible is telling us that it is almost better to have this
His father and mother should do whatever it takes tochild die, then to have him lead a life of crime or a life
bring him to the elders of his communityof being on drugs, or a life of hurting other people.
And tell them "Our son is defiant and rebellious - heThe Bible is telling us that if the community allows the
does not listen to our words - all he cares about is histeenager to live a life of crime or a life of drugs - then
own physical pleasures".the community has essentially murdered the child.
The townspeople should then stone him with stones -Tough Love. - That is what is called for!
so that you destroy evil from amongst your midst.The community should use whatever tools it has.
Then all the people will hear and be afraid.Whatever it takes. If it will take jail to shock the
Deuteronomy 21:18-21.teenager back to "reality" then do that. If it takes
All the Rabbis who have studied the Bible for the lasttherapy and drug rehab then do that. You may have
2500 years say that this is one of those laws thatto physically impose a curfew - i.e. having the bigger
God does not mean to ever be taken literally. You domen physically restrain the teen from going out at night,
not stone a child because he steals and is defiant.then do that. The life of a teenage child is too precious
These Rabbis say that in the entire legal history ofto waste by allowing the child to become a horror to
Biblical Law - the courts would never impose capitalhis society.
punishment on teenagers.What can you do to help disturbed children? What can
Instead, this purpose of this law is to teach a principle.your community do to save their lives? How tough is
A principle that a community has the responsibility ofthe love you will have to give - to make sure that you
doing "whatever it takes" to help parents deal withstop a teenager who's joined a gang or is living a life
difficult children. We all know that if a child joins a gang;of petty crime?
then he is very likely to end up on the wrong side of