Have a Nice Sunday!

Good friends of mine, Catholic friends, recentlyThe soul must be resigned, annihilated and detached,"
confessed to me. They said that although theyBuddhism teaches how to meditate without the burden
occasionally attend their Catholic church, they haveof thought and all of thought's implications, even spiritual
found a community church that makes them feelimages and theories.
better. They find themselves happy when they leave,"All is darkness compared to God – all creatures
unlike their Catholic experience where they feel guiltydeformed, the earth is void, the heaven's dark. All the
and dejected. They complained that the Catholicwisdom of the world is foolishness," in Buddhism this
Church depressed them, asking for endless donationsmeans that everything and anything that we have or
and fostering all kinds of guilt feelings. The communityever hope to think or imagine; all of our thoughts and
church, on the other hand, was full of happy peoplememories, are but illusion compared to Ultimate reality.
with whom they could feel at ease and have a goodWhen St. John says, "Proceed by unknowing, rather
time. And the pastor was funny, too!than knowing. Desire and knowledge make the soul
As I listened to their rationale regarding the problems ofweak," Buddhism teaches that desire is the source of
the Catholic Church, and how much better they felt atall suffering, including the desire to know.
the community church, I had to remind myself that they"To be craving the things of the earth is to be forever
were talking about church and not a comedy club!dissatisfied, as the things of the earth are as small
When did church become a form of entertainment? Iscrumbs from the table of God,". and Buddhism rests it's
this what church going has become - if the churchcase here in the First Noble Truth, that life is indeed
doesn't keep people happy, they will find one thatsuffering, and that only enlightenment, or as St. John
does?would say, "Union with God," can cure us.
Congregations are becoming gargantuan. ThousandsEnlightenment and union withGod is true happiness, not
of parishioners jam parking lots that require an army ofthe surface happiness we feel when we are
security forces to regulate the traffic. The number ofsocializing. Socializing is only a way to grow the ego as
programs offered boggles the mind and are aswe use friends and loved ones to reinforce the idea of
diverse as the people who attend these churches –"me." In the absence of "me" is God, but few honestly
probably everything from yoga, gourmet cooking andwant to go there, even though that's all they will have
self-help, to career classes. Something for everybodyleft when their last breath is taken . . . nothing will
and a great place to meet that Mr. or Ms Right. Andaccompany them on their final, solitary journey; no
along with all the fun, of course, is the obviouspossessions or knowledge, no family or friends, no
guarantee of heaven; just believe and have a ball. It'srock band, only God. So shouldn't we get to know God
not rocket science why my friends are ready to bailwhile we can? St. John and Buddhism consider
out of their Catholic faith – the Church just cannotenlightenment or union with God to be the most crucial
compete with rock bands and celebrity speakers.thing that a human being can aspire to, because if we
My smiling friends went on and on about theirdo not know God in this precious and important lifetime,
newfound community church and all the new friendsour destiny is a crap-shoot for sure.
and business contacts that they have made, and asOh, and one more thing that St. John said, just in case
they continued gushing, I found myself reflecting uponyou ever decide to get to know God for yourself:
something that a great Catholic saint; St. John of the"Strive always to prefer not that which is easiest, but
Cross, once said.that which is most difficult.
"In order to have union with God, the soul must be inStrive always to prefer not that which is delectable,
darkness concerning things of the senses, that isbut that which is unpleasing.
worldly things and creatures (human beings). But theStrive always to prefer not that which is the most
soul must be also blinded to spiritual things which are ofpleasure, but that which is the least pleasure.
the higher or rational part. The soul must be resigned,Strive always to prefer not that which is the most
annihilated and detached. All is darkness compared torestful, but that which is the most wearisome.
God – all creatures deformed, the earth is void, theStrive always to prefer not that which is the most
heaven's dark. All the wisdom of the world isconsolation, but that which is disconsolate.
foolishness. Proceed by unknowing, rather thanStrive always to prefer not that which is greatest, but
knowing. Desire and knowledge make the soul weak.that which is least.
To be craving the things of the earth is to be foreverStrive always to prefer not that which is most
dissatisfied, as the things of the earth are as smallprecious, but that which is most lowest and despised
crumbs from the table of God."Strive always to prefer not that which is desire for
Well. It's a good bet that good ol' St. John, poor fellow,anything, but that which is desire for nothing.
never really heard a really good Christian rock band!Strive always to prefer not that which is the best of
And if he did have a church these days, which heworldly things, but that which is the least of worldly
wouldn't, but if he did, he certainly wouldn't need parkingthings."
attendants! Who in their right mind would want to hearAnd then St. John said this:
things like – "Human beings are creatures?" Human"In order to arrive at having pleasure in everything,
beings are our friends and loved ones! They fulfill ourdesire to have pleasure in nothing.
lives that God wants us to live! "St. John is full ofIn order to arrive at possessing everything, desire to
beans, really depressing, and must have been out ofpossess nothing.
his mind," would be a typical comment, or perhaps justIn order to arrive at being everything, desire to be
silence and a deer-in-the-headlights stare.nothing.
The problem is, after meditating for almost thirty yearsIn order to arrive at knowing everything, desire to
and studying the deeper aspects of various religions, Iknow nothing."
have come to the conclusion that St. John was rightAnd he drove it home this way:
on the mark. I mean, he wasn't made a Saint and a"In order to arrive at that wherein thou hast no
Doctor of the Catholic Church on a whim! But what hepleasure, thou must go by a way wherein thou hast no
taught along with St. Teresa of Avila, was toopleasure.
advanced for most people . . . but perfectly in synchIn order to arrive at that wherein thou posseseth
with Buddhism.nothing, thou must go by a way wherein thou possess
When St. John says, "In order to have union with God,nothing
the soul must be in darkness concerning things of theIn order to arrive at that wherein thou art nothing, thou
senses, that is worldly things and creatures (humanmust go by a way wherein thou art nothing.
beings)," Buddhism explains how to meditate and sitIn order to arrive at that wherein thou knowest nothing,
quietly with one's mind detached from the busy world.thou must go by a way wherein thou knowest
When he says, "But the soul must be also blinded tonothing."
spiritual things which are of the higher or rational part.Have a nice Sunday! See you in church?