How to Meditate in 7 Easy Steps

In his book, A New Earth, spiritual teacher Eckhart Tolleand downs of life with ever-increasing skillfullness. We
tells a story of someone who brings him the catalogueall want to be happy and to reduce suffering. Over
from a large spiritual center, seeking advice on whichtime, one discovers that meditation makes this possible.
course to take. To this Tolle responds, "I don't know.But don't take my word for it. Take a seat and close
They all look so interesting. But I do know this: beyour eyes. The Buddha himself invites you when he
aware of your breathing as often as you are able,said, "Ehi passiko," meaning, "You need not believe
whenever you remember. Do that for one year, and itwhat I tell you. Practice and find out for yourself. Then
will be more powerfully transformative than attendingyou can accept or reject. Come and see."
all of these courses. And it's free."Basic Meditation Instructions:
Tolle is right. Each of us has ready access to one ofAllocate a special space, seat, and time of day just for
the most transformative tools available-breathmeditation. Although you can meditate anywhere and
awareness. Most of the time we neglect this valuableat any time, consistency ensures a greater likelihood of
resource. Instead we look to our careers, families,success. Begin with sitting for 15 minutes a day. First
dream homes, relationships, upcoming vacations orthing in the morning or just before bed are good times
some indistinct time in the future for fulfillment. Sure,when external disturbances are likely to be minimal.
these things can make us happy; but only for a shortYou decide what works best for your life. If it feels
while. Sooner or later they will change or come to anappropriate after some time, you can gradually
end, and some degree of dissatisfaction will return.increase the duration of your practice to 30, 45 or 60
There is no doubt about it: as long as we seekminutes.
happiness outside of ourselves, we will be disappointed.Meditation practice is a rich journey best approached
This information is nothing new. The Buddha knew thiswith patience, persistence, curiosity and no
more than 2,500 years ago when, after much diligence,expectations! Over time, meditating with a group on
he successfully found lasting happiness byoccasion and seeking guidance from a skilled teacher
extinguishing the root of all suffering within himself. Thecan greatly support your practice.
Buddha then dedicated the rest of his life to teaching1. Sit on a cushion on the floor with your legs crossed.
and spreading a non-dogmatic, systematic method toIf this is not possible, sit on a chair. In order to have
inner liberation, which he called Vipassana Meditationgood concentration, it is important not to be in pain.
(Vipassana means "Insight" in Pali, the canonicalHowever you sit, be sure that your spine is straight.
language of Southeast Asia's Theravada Buddhism).2. Place your hands either palms down over your
During the time since, this method has sinceknees, or the more traditional way is to cradle the
proliferated drastically; today its presence spansback of your right or left hand in the palm of the other
around the world.hand, with both palms up and resting on the feet. The
Vipassana Meditation can be divided into two stages:tips of the thumbs touch below the navel.
mindfulness of breathing (or anapanasati in Pali) and3. Close your eyes and first bring your awareness to
insight. In the first stage one simply sits and observesthe sensation of sitting. Feel your seat and your legs.
the breath. When the mind wanders-which it invariablyFeel the support beneath you. Don't try to visualize
does-one continually returns to watching the breath. Itanything. Just notice what is there. Do this for a few
only takes a few moments of sitting in meditation tominutes, until a feeling of physical and mental
realize that one's inner world consists of relentlesssteadiness and presence arise.
mental chatter. One aims not to quiet this chatter4. Next, bring your awareness to your lower belly, just
(although that may happen at times on its own).below the navel. Notice the sensation of the breath,
Rather, one aims just to stay sitting, aware andthe rise and fall of the abdomen with each in and out
accepting of all arising phenomena, whether they be abreath. Notice the length and depth of your breath
mind busy making plans, back pain, negative emotions,without judgment or manipulation. After several
or the sound of a jackhammer outside. When oneminutes you can also bring your awareness to the
allows each moment to be as it is, without trying tonatural gaps between the in and out-breaths. If you
cling to, reject, judge or change it in any way, innercan, stay alert to the entire cycle of the breath.
freedom takes root.5. If the mind is very distracted and you are finding it
This first stage, anapanasati, can be outlined anddifficult to follow the breath, you can count your
succinctly instructed, as this is the part of the practicebreaths until the mind becomes more focused.
that one can actually do, practically and willfully. The6. When a thought arises, label it "Thinking." When a
second component, insight, arises out of the firmsensation arises, label it "Feeling." When a sound arises,
foundation of anapanasiti like an act of grace. Insightlabel it "Hearing." Notice how the act of labeling
into the true, unwavering nature of reality happenssomething decreases its power to distract you. Do this
spontaneously over time when the mind settles intoand gently, relentlessly bring your awareness back to
deeper states of acceptance and concentration.your breath. There is nowhere to go, nothing to do.
Even if one does not turn to meditation forJust sit, watching your breath. The key to greater inner
self-realization, the practice holds innumerable benefits.freedom is your unwavering commitment to return to
Meditation can reduce stress and therefore fortify theawareness, again and again.
immune system. It also improves mental concentration7. At the end of your allotted practice time, slowly
and memory. In addition, one may notice an increasedopen your eyes. Stand up when you are ready. At
capacity to stay calm, peaceful, relaxed for oneselfsome point you may notice that the mindfulness that
and others, even under trying circumstances. Withyou have cultivated on your cushion has seeped into
practice, one attains a balance of mind to face the upsall that you think, do and say.