| Being judgmental is being angry. | | | | own problems begin, which is the only thing that will |
| Fear, the basis of anger, is always connected with the | | | | help them personally. |
| past or future. If you can look deeply within and find | | | | We should all be concerned with anyone's apparent |
| what it is that you fear, whether it is God, living up to | | | | anger, because in time it will not only promote disease, |
| some kind of ideal, fearing ideas different from yours, | | | | but because if an angry person continues being angry, |
| or people that are different from you, a different color, | | | | it can easily turn into hatred and get out of control. And |
| social status, or if you fear losing your house in these | | | | someday that person might meet someone who is |
| difficult economic times, or your partner to someone | | | | just as angry and fearful and hateful, perhaps on the |
| else, or your job, or your status, these are all fears that | | | | highway (with road rage so prevalent), and then they, |
| result in anger. | | | | or someone else, may get hurt, or worse! This is how |
| An angry person is a fearful person, and a fearful | | | | our many religious wars have begun. Isnt it time to find |
| person lives in the past and future. The problem with | | | | another way? Peace is so . . . loving! |
| the past and future is that it is all fantasy, made up of | | | | I have written several articles on anger: They are titled, |
| nothing but thoughts and concepts. Only the moment is | | | | Anger Mismanagement; Manage Anger, Why not End |
| real; this is where courageous individuals live, and as a | | | | it?; The Heart of the Anger Problem." |
| result, they do not fear - they act, which means they | | | | Also, to calm one's mind a little, my inspirational articles |
| are living in the moment and see everyone and | | | | may help: "A Flower; Seashells; Beaches and eternity; |
| everything with new eyes every second, without | | | | Why Im Not Rich; The Story of a Tree; Why Do I |
| judgment. | | | | Write; Postmarked Yesterday; When all Hope is Gone; |
| What I just said may not register with a person who is | | | | Three Reasons Were Unhappy; Understanding Grief; |
| in a present judgmental state of mind, simply because | | | | The Bird on The Pole; Does Life Let Us Down; |
| the person may be escaping their own problems by | | | | Happiness, the Carrot; Only One Day to Live; |
| focusing on someone else whom they are judging. But | | | | Misinterpreting Life;The Deeper Meaning of Life." |
| because what has just been said is factual, it will act | | | | A calm, contented, peaceful life is possible. It's so much |
| as a seed, and someday the judgmental person will be | | | | better than anger. |
| able to begin looking inside and figure out where their | | | | |