People Are Landscapes, Beautiful and Complex

"A Raindrop fallsThis is just like the raindrops in our landscape. Every
Will it feed a river, flower perhaps or creaturethought is like a raindrop and we can never really
perhaps?predict what affect it's going to have on our character.
A thought trickles through the mindSo when I study a person, I can't see these previous
Will it feed fear, anger or compassion?influences and I certainly am never going to be able to
Karma is borngrasp the rich history that has created this person. Of
We are a landscape"course the person concerned, being studied by me,
This article was inspired by an experience a couple ofbelieves they understand their own character. They will
years ago now, on Holy Isle, the Tibetan Buddhisthave a much richer view than I do. They may even
Island, just off Arran. I was running a Tai Chi andhave some knowledge of the 'droplets of water' that
meditation retreat there and taking some time out tohave taken them to where they are now. (This, if you
rest. There is a lovely mountain in the middle of themeditate on it, on your own 'droplets of water', makes
island and one morning I took a run up it. I enjoy trailyou realise how little you know about yourself and
running. It keeps me fit and sometimes theabout your own landscape. With practise, you start to
concentration required is, to me, another form ofdissolve. This is key experience if you are making
meditation. The view from the top is gorgeous. I wasprogress with Buddhism I believe. It may sound a little
standing on top and watching the rain sweep acrossfrightening, but the experience is actually rather
the distant hills on Arran. You can see Goat Fell fromliberating). So, just like my perceptions of the landscape,
there and it was looking very dark and moody acrossmy understanding and knowledge of the person
there that morning, although my hill top was in sunlight.before me is severely limited. How can I truly know
Watching the rain and the landscape from a distanceand connect with this person when I view them from a
like this, it made me realise that I was watchingdistance like this.
dependent arising in action. For the benefit ofTo truly connect with a landscape, we have to walk
non-Buddhists reading this, dependent arising, orwithin it. We can choose not too of course. But if we
pratityasamutpada, is the understanding that nothingreally want to understand it, to experience it in its fullest
exists in and of its own right. Everything is the result ofextent, we have to choose to step into it. However,
some cause and effect. If fact, in Buddhism, each andwhen we do this, we do of course have to take the
every moment has this in its very nature. Even WEexperience exactly as it is. When we walk up the
are the result of dependent arising, each and everysteep hill, it makes no sense to shout at the hill and say
moment of our lives. There is no single thing called 'me','you are too steep for me, you are making me tired'
just a set of interdependent events, actions andThe hill will not change. When our boots get wet from
thoughts that create the perception of this thing calledthe wet grass, we cannot actually do anything about
'Andy Spragg'. I could spin off into a reverie aboutthis if we wish to cross the field. We simply have to
Karma at this point, but I'll try to resist the urge andaccept it. After all, if the hill wasn't steep or the grass
stick to the point.wasn't quite so lush and wet, the landscape would not
I realised that studying this landscape in front of mebe the same from that distant view. We must accept
was a little like studying a person. Just as complex, justit as it is and simply view it and experience it.
as intangible.Also, and most importantly, if we choose not to enter
A single droplet of rain falls from the sky. Who canin, to see things from our distant, limited viewpoint, we
predict which way it will go? It may land on hardmay well miss the greatest beauty. There is a gorge in
ground, flow into other flows of water and togetherCrete called the Sumaria Gorge.
form a stream, a river and cut down into theFrom the top of the gorge is a beautiful view. But the
landscape in a very obvious but slow manner. Thereal gem of this gorge can only be seen when you
droplet may land on soil or a plant. Becoming absorbedstep down into it. When you 'connect' with the
as the plant sends its roots down. The plant itself,landscape. In order to do this, you have to put your
becoming part of this rich landscape. The roots subtlyboots on and trek along a 9 mile, dusty, rocky path.
changing the soil below. Lichen may be nourished byCrete is a hot place so this is no easy task. The truly
the water and change the colour of the stone it isspectacular part of the walk is almost at the end. Here
growing on. An animal may drink from a pond that thethe gorge narrows to just a couple of metres wide
droplet has landed in. Who knows the way that animaland the river squeezes through this narrow place. The
may contribute to that landscape.sheer height of the cliffs and the dramatic nature
I started to see all these things within the landscapetakes your breath away (if you've got any left after
and the view before me was suddenly more complexthe hike!) But, if you hadn't connected with the
and beautiful. But also fragile. I suddenly felt the verylandscape and entered in, taking everything as it is, you
nature of change in this landscape at a very deepwould never see this stunning scene and truly
level. It was at this point, while studying this gorgeousappreciate the beauty of Sumaria Gorge. You would
vista in front of me that I started to think about peoplemiss the real beauty.
and the similarities with these thoughts.I believe that connecting with people is a little like this.
When a person stands before me, I perceive what IWe must be prepared to connect. But in order to do
believe is their character from what is displayed bythis we have to take them exactly as they are. There
their appearance and by the limited set of actions that Iwill be hills to climb and hot, dusty pathways. But we
have witnessed since I have known them. Just likemust just notice them, see them, every aspect of their
with the landscape, I am mislead by my perceptions. Icharacter. This way, we find their most beautiful
don't see the equivalent of the drop of water.aspects and we will be surprised and delighted by the
The Buddha gave us this view of our minds, ourrich connection we then have with them.
thoughts, and how they build our character.There is no need to understand how each individual
The thought manifests as the word;the wordraindrop has shaped the landscape. We simply open all
manifests as the deed;the deed develops into habit;andour senses and connect. Step in.
habit hardens into character.These days there seems to be so much analysis
So watch the thought and its ways with care;and let itdone on people. We are categorised and analysed.
spring out of love born out of concern for all beings.There are so many therapists out there figuring out
As a Buddhist I believe that my body (yes, body!) andwhy we are the way we are. Why do we need to
my mind at this point in time is literally the compositionknow this to connect with each other? I don't believe
of all my previous thoughts and actions. There arewe do for a minute. There is nothing to fear with
clearly external influences that happen and the Buddhaconnecting with people. We should celebrate our
describes how these influences affect us too. But herecomplexity and our individual nature.
the message is clear. Each single thought we haveSimply connect. There is nothing else to be done.
goes in to our makeup.